Challenging Differences
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Opposites seem to attract each other. Somehow we are attracted to people who have strengths that are our weaknesses. "C"s will meet an exciting, positive, upbeat type person, like an "I". "C"s will wish they were more like him or her, while the "I" is impressed with the "C"'s logical thinking and organized behavior.
"D"s are often attracted to "C"s because of "C"s cautious and calculating demeanor, while "C"s are impressed with "D"s' risk-taking, driving, decisive and dreaming behavior. "I"s are also attracted to "S"s because of their quiet, sweet, soft demeanor; while "S"s admire "I"s' ability to influence and impress others.
What happens when opposites attract can be explained by the dynamics of differences. Our differences draw us together. Ironically, those same differences can drive us apart. The characteristics of the person with whom we felt a bond often become the very traits we end-up resenting.
While opposites often attract, we must keep in mind that most people are blends or composites of DISC. Few people are predominate "D"s, "I"s, "S"s, or "C"s. Most people are .....
The following are three of the most common opposite types. See if any of these is like your Behavioral Blend/s and that of your "significant other." .....
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