Understanding The Two Graphs

Two graphs are identified for each person. They will help you understand how each person feels, thinks and acts.
There is no bad profile. Each graph simply identifies a specific way the person looks at life.

GRAPH 1: "This is expected of me" is the response to how the person feels and thinks people expect him or her to behave. The person is telling you, "This is how I feel you want me to be" or "I think you want me to act like this." People understand early in life that there are acceptable and unacceptable actions. Everyone is influenced by these thoughts and feelings.

GRAPH 2: "This is me" is the person's response to how he or she feels and thinks under pressure, how the person really feels and thinks inside. The person is revealing how he or she will naturally respond when he or she does not think about what is expected of him or her usually under stress. Everyone is born with a natural bent of behavior. Our parents and peers, plus our environment growing up help develop our personalities into predictable patterns of behavior.